The terms presented here are provided to assist the reader in understanding our novels and naughty words in general. Most of these words should have been learned in grammar school, but with education the way it is today, some of these definitions might have been missed. Much of my research, for this table of terms, came from my own knowledge, suggestions from friends, and extensive reading from restroom walls. This is not a complete list of bad words by any means, but it does provide the reader with enough information to be able to communicate with longshoremen, and sailors.
J.A. Smith's Naughty Words
Author of NICE GIRLS BEING NAUGHTY SERIES
Naughty Word List
TERM | DEFINITION | REMARKS |
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AFO | All Fucked Out, You are done and need a rest | This is not a bad thing. It can be from either one long good night or a sex vacation. You are done! |
All four | Person is on their knees and forearms, with their ass in the air. | Doggy style position |
Back door | Anus | Usually referring to a female |
BBC | Big, black cock | Seen in Craigslist ads, many women like this fantasy. |
BBW | Big Beautiful Woman, she is overweight | Many guys like BBW |
BDSM | Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism | The D and the S can also be “Dominant and Submissive” |
Bi, Bisexual | One who enjoys sex with either gender. Same as Bi friendly (seen in ads) | Bi comfortable or guy friendly means about the same thing as Bi. Bi-curious is a person who has not experienced any Bisexual contact but is interested in trying it or learning more about it. |
Blowjob, BJ | Oral sex to a man | Do not actually blow |
Blueballs | Condition caused by blood trapped in scrotum. Supposedly relieved by ejaculation | Usually used by guys meaning they need a piece of ass. During arousal, balls can increase in size from blood. In some cases, they can have a blue tint. I have not seen it. |
Blue Steel hard-on | A very hard erection | Blue steel is a very hard steel and is perfect for hard-ons. |
Bondage | Restraining a person; usually used for sexual activity. Ropes, straps, chains etc. can be used along with anything else that can render a person immobilized for the pleasure of another. It can be part of Bondage and Discipline as a part of an S&M playtime. | Some bondage is to immobilize a person in beautiful and intricate rope knots. It is not involved with any pain but can be associated with some kind of sexual activity. |
Boner | Erection | |
Bottom | A person that prefers to be the recipient of sex. The one doing the sucking or providing the butt. Also a term used in BDSM for the person on the receiving end. | Opposite of Top Mainly used concerning Bisexual or gay guys |
Boy Toy | A young guy couples play with | Over 18 of course |
Butt plug | An anal insertion toy Most times small but can be gigantic. | They have a wide flange on the end to keep it from going in too far. It only goes in and stays for a while. It does not usually go back and forth like a dildo. |
BYOB | Bring Your Own Bottle | Party without a cash bar; may have mix and even a bartender. |
CBT | Cock and Ball Torture: Hitting, pulling, and inflicting pain on a male’s penis and/or testicles | Usually refers to ball torture |
Clouds, cloudy | Smoking dope, usually marijuana | Seen in Craigslist ads |
Cock Holster | Female mouth | |
Cock ring | Circular device worn around the penis or around both the penis and testicles. Some are designed to restrict the blood flow in the penis to keep an erection longer. | These come in numerous styles. There are rings in metal, leather with straps, fabric with Velcro, and rubber. Many with accessories attached. |
Cowgirl position | Male is on his back, and the female rides his penis facing him. | A Reverse Cowgirl Position is when the girl rides his cock while facing his feet. (This is also known as the Rodeo Position.) |
Cream pie | Semen deposited in a woman’s vagina or ass, available to lick or eat. | Aka: cleaning up. The eating can be the one who deposited the cum or someone else. |
Cuckold, cuckolding | A sexual activity where the male half of the couple is the submissive. He is forced to watch his female counterpart have sexual intercourse with another male, in front of him. | The hubby usually is humiliated by seeing his wife or girlfriend being pleasured by a stud or bull male. |
Cum, come, coming | To come is the act of orgasm for either male or female. Cum is the fluid semen. | Also to climax or have an orgasm |
Cut | Circumcised | |
Doggy style | The girl is on all four with her ass in the air. Guy enters her pussy from behind. (Like dogs fucking) | If you had to look this one up, boy do you need this book. |
Dom | Person in charge, or doing the play to a Sub. | Domme and Dominatrix usually refer to a female. |
Dominatrix | Female Dom | Usually in full Dominatrix outfit of black with boots and hat. Whip and crops are optional. |
Double dildo | A dildo with a fake penis at each end. It is designed for two women with their pussies close to one another. | They are available in a variety of sizes and colors. Can be used anally also |
Double Penetration | See DP | |
Down, going down | Oral sex | Either male or female |
DP | Double Penetration: The female takes two penises at the same time...one in her anus and one in her vagina. | I have seen it but not very often |
DVP | Double Vaginal Penetration: The female takes two penises into her vagina | I have seen it but not very often |
Favors, party favors | Illegal drugs | Bad |
Fetish | Arousal from unusual items activities. Also includes those that need or desire role-play situations of incest or rape for example. | Such as foot fetish or arm pit fetish, where people are turned on with these parts of the body. This falls into the same category as kinky and perverted. If you and your partner enjoy it, and it does not bother anyone else; it is your business. |
FFF | Triple F: Favorite Fuck Friends, our closest friends in the lifestyle | Term we made up |
Fisting | Inserting a fist or your entire hand into a woman’s vagina or the anus of either gender. | This is one of those, if it floats your boat, deals. Each person gets to decide what he or she likes. |
Flogger | A whipping device with a handle and multiple very narrow straps. Usually made of leather | Can also be made with horse hair or other materials |
Four Twenty, 420 | Marijuana | Seen on Craigslist |
Fuck friends | Swinger/lifestyle friends | Another term we made up |
Full swap | Swap partners for intercourse | Pretty much do everything. |
Gangbang | A person provides sex to two or more other people. (Usually more than two) | Usually a female is fucked by a group (gang) of guys |
GILF | Grandmother I (would) Like (to ) Fuck | We made this one up See MILF also There is also a double GILF (Great Grandmother) but only a few of us have gone there |
Glory Hole, GH | Hole cut into a door or wall where a guy can place his penis through for oral sex. An anonymous person on the other side provides oral sex | Anal sex is also possible at a glory hole |
Golden Showers | Sex play involving urinating on one or more participants | Someone is peed on. Same as W/S (water sports). Not the same as squirting. |
Head, giving head | Oral sex | |
Homophobic | Fear or dislike of same gender sexual activities. (Usually refers to male to male contact) | Not homophobic means the guy is straight but incidental touching is not going to be a problem. |
Horizontal friend | Swinger/lifestyle friends | Lying down in horizontal position for sex |
Hot | Sexy Usually refers to a female but can be a male too or an activity. | This term fits many sexy places or objects, like, “She had on a hot pair of boots.” |
Humbler | Ball torture device, to lock balls through a hole, to humble the victim. | Usually made from wood with a hole big enough for the scrotum to fit but not big enough for the balls to get free. The wood is split in two, fitted around the balls, and held in place with two bolts. |
Hung | Large penis Usually refers to length | As in, “like a horse” |
HWP | Height Weight Proportional | Means person is in reasonable shape |
ISO | In Search Of | Found in ads for sex |
Keeper | Nice person Someone you want to be friends with | Comes from fishing terms, when you catch a fish of legal size |
Lube | Personal lubricant Used for sex or masturbation | Water base is best with condoms. Use plenty of lube with condoms. If lube gets sticky during sex from drying out, use a little water to get it slick again. |
Manhood | Penis | |
Masochist | A person that is turned on when receiving pain. | Usually from a Sadist |
Meet and Greet | A small social gathering, usually held before a hotel swinger’s dance or other event. Can also be used at swinger conventions or cruises. | Many times tied to registration and payment for the event. Gives the participants an opportunity to meet other people. |
MFM | Male, Female, Male threesome Two guys and a girl | Can also be, FMF, FFFM or just about any other combination of these letters of the alphabet |
MILF | Mother I (would) Like (to) Fuck | See GILF |
Money Shot | Male ejaculation, usually on the girl somewhere | This is a porn term. The man pulls out and jacks off onto the girl’s tummy, tits, or other place. |
Newbies | New to the lifestyle | May not have played at all or only a little. Many swingers avoid newbies. We loved to corrupt them. |
NSA | No Strings Attached, looking for sex not friendship | Usually looking for a one-night stand with no obligations. Seen on Craigslist ads |
Nuts | Testicles | Balls |
On Premises | On premises refers to swing clubs or parties where places are provided to have sex. (Sex is had on the premises) | Swing clubs are usually “on premises” clubs with play areas provided. Hotel parties almost never offer on premises areas, and attendees are expected to get a room. |
Parachute | A leather, cone shaped, BDSM device that is strapped around the male’s testicles. Chains hang from it where weights can be attached. | One of a number of ball torture implements used by Dommes |
Party | Usually means have sex with other people. | In some places might mean to include drugs with sex, (see PNP below) The word Party in the vertical world is much tamer. |
Party Favors | Illegal drugs | |
Pecker | Penis | |
Peg, pegging | A male receiving anal sex, with a strap-on from a female | |
Piece of ass | Sexual intercourse | Getting a piece of ass is the same as Fucking a pussy |
Pick of the Party | The hottest female at a party or other event | Coined by Alison |
PNP | Party N Play, Have sex and use drugs | Seen on Craigslist ads Stay away from this |
Play | Have sex | Usually three or more people |
Rim, rimming | Oral sex to the anus | Licking your sex partner’s asshole |
Rodeo Position | Male is on his back, and the woman slides onto his penis while facing his feet. | Also known as Reverse Cowgirl position |
Sadist | One who derives pleasure from inflicting pain on another person. | |
Sensation Play | S & M term referring to a variety of toys and tools to produce sensation to the body | Anything from a feather to low voltage electric implements, pin wheels, and about anything else that can be used by a Dom to excite and stimulate the Sub |
Sixty Nine (69) | An oral sex position where each person has their mouth on the sexual parts of the other. Can be male, female, or any combination. Generally, one person is on their back while the second person, facing them, has their mouth on the sex organ, and their own sex organ in the mouth of the person beneath them. | No it is not 23 times more than a threesome It is a lot easier to do than to understand the explanation. |
Squirt, squirtter | Female ejaculate | Some women discharge a liquid from their pussy during orgasm. |
Straight | Only has sex with people of the opposite gender. | |
Strap-on | Sex toy with a fake penis attached to a strap worn around the waist. | Usually worn by a female to fuck other females or males |
Soft swing, Soft swap | Foreplay type playing without swapping for intercourse | Generally touching, maybe some oral. |
Sub | A person that likes to be told what to do or is the recipient of “play” from a Dom | Opposite of Dom |
Switch | This is a BDSM term referring to a person being either a Sub or a Dom depending on the situation | Kat in our stories is a good example. She is very comfortable as a top or a bottom. |
Takeover, Full Takeover | Takeover of a full hotel, ship, or other venue for a swinger event | |
Textile friends | Non-nudists | Some lifestyle couples are not nudists, but they are not called textile friends. |
Tina | Harder drugs, cocaine | Seen on Craigslist ads Stay away from this crap |
Top | The person that prefers being sucked or doing the fucking. | Found on Craigslist, usually when referring to Bi guys |
TT | Tit Torture Pinching, clamps etc. involving either sex. Primarily deals with nipples. | Usually refers to a guy getting his nipples played with. |
Vanilla | Regular sex without, toys or kink | |
Versatile | One who enjoys sex as either a top or bottom | |
Vertical friend | Non swinger/lifestyle friends | |
Water sports, W/S | Urinating as part of sex play | See Golden Showers |
Wood, Woody | Erection | Hard-on, boner, etc. |