J.A. Smith's Naughty Words

Author of NICE GIRLS BEING NAUGHTY SERIES

The terms presented here are provided to assist the reader in understanding our novels and naughty words in general. Most of these words should have been learned in grammar school, but with education the way it is today, some of these definitions might have been missed. Much of my research, for this table of terms, came from my own knowledge, suggestions from friends, and extensive reading from restroom walls. This is not a complete list of bad words by any means, but it does provide the reader with enough information to be able to communicate with longshoremen, and sailors.

Naughty Word List

TERMDEFINITIONREMARKS
AFOAll Fucked Out, You are done and need a restThis is not a bad thing. It can be from either one long good night or a sex vacation. You are done!
All fourPerson is on their knees and forearms, with their ass in the air.Doggy style position
Back doorAnusUsually referring to a female
BBCBig, black cockSeen in Craigslist ads, many women like this fantasy.
BBWBig Beautiful Woman, she is overweightMany guys like BBW
BDSMBondage, Discipline, Sadism, MasochismThe D and the S can also be “Dominant and Submissive”
Bi, BisexualOne who enjoys sex with either gender. Same as Bi friendly (seen in ads)Bi comfortable or guy friendly means about the same thing as Bi. Bi-curious is a person who has not experienced any Bisexual contact but is interested in trying it or learning more about it.
Blowjob, BJOral sex to a manDo not actually blow
BlueballsCondition caused by blood trapped in scrotum. Supposedly relieved by ejaculationUsually used by guys meaning they need a piece of ass. During arousal, balls can increase in size from blood. In some cases, they can have a blue tint. I have not seen it.
Blue Steel hard-onA very hard erectionBlue steel is a very hard steel and is perfect for hard-ons.
BondageRestraining a person; usually used for sexual activity. Ropes, straps, chains etc. can be used along with anything else that can render a person immobilized for the pleasure of another. It can be part of Bondage and Discipline as a part of an S&M playtime.Some bondage is to immobilize a person in beautiful and intricate rope knots. It is not involved with any pain but can be associated with some kind of sexual activity.
BonerErection
BottomA person that prefers to be the recipient of sex. The one doing the sucking or providing the butt.

Also a term used in BDSM for the person on the receiving end.
Opposite of Top

Mainly used concerning Bisexual or gay guys
Boy ToyA young guy couples play withOver 18 of course
Butt plugAn anal insertion toy
Most times small but can be gigantic.
They have a wide flange on the end to keep it from going in too far. It only goes in and stays for a while. It does not usually go back and forth like a dildo.
BYOBBring Your Own BottleParty without a cash bar; may have mix and even a bartender.
CBTCock and Ball Torture: Hitting, pulling, and inflicting pain on a male’s penis and/or testiclesUsually refers to ball torture
Clouds, cloudySmoking dope, usually marijuanaSeen in Craigslist ads
Cock HolsterFemale mouth
Cock ringCircular device worn around the penis or around both the penis and testicles.

Some are designed to restrict the blood flow in the penis to keep an erection longer.
These come in numerous styles. There are rings in metal, leather with straps, fabric with Velcro, and rubber. Many with accessories attached.
Cowgirl positionMale is on his back, and the female rides his penis facing him.A Reverse Cowgirl Position is when the girl rides his cock while facing his feet. (This is also known as the Rodeo Position.)
Cream pieSemen deposited in a woman’s vagina or ass, available to lick or eat.Aka: cleaning up. The eating can be the one who deposited the cum or someone else.
Cuckold, cuckoldingA sexual activity where the male half of the couple is the submissive. He is forced to watch his female counterpart have sexual intercourse with another male, in front of him.The hubby usually is humiliated by seeing his wife or girlfriend being pleasured by a stud or bull male.
Cum, come, comingTo come is the act of orgasm for either male or female. Cum is the fluid semen.Also to climax or have an orgasm
CutCircumcised
Doggy styleThe girl is on all four with her ass in the air. Guy enters her pussy from behind. (Like dogs fucking)If you had to look this one up, boy do you need this book.
DomPerson in charge, or doing the play to a Sub.Domme and Dominatrix usually refer to a female.
DominatrixFemale DomUsually in full Dominatrix outfit of black with boots and hat. Whip and crops are optional.
Double dildoA dildo with a fake penis at each end.
It is designed for two women with their pussies close to one another.
They are available in a variety of sizes and colors.
Can be used anally also
Double PenetrationSee DP
Down, going downOral sexEither male or female
DPDouble Penetration: The female takes two penises at the same time...one in her anus and one in her vagina.I have seen it but not very often
DVPDouble Vaginal Penetration: The female takes two penises into her vaginaI have seen it but not very often
Favors, party favorsIllegal drugsBad
FetishArousal from unusual items activities. Also includes those that need or desire role-play situations of incest or rape for example.Such as foot fetish or arm pit fetish, where people are turned on with these parts of the body.

This falls into the same category as kinky and perverted. If you and your partner enjoy it, and it does not bother anyone else; it is your business.
FFFTriple F: Favorite Fuck Friends, our closest friends in the lifestyleTerm we made up
FistingInserting a fist or your entire hand into a woman’s vagina or the anus of either gender.This is one of those, if it floats your boat, deals. Each person gets to decide what he or she likes.
FloggerA whipping device with a handle and multiple very narrow straps.
Usually made of leather
Can also be made with horse hair or other materials
Four Twenty, 420MarijuanaSeen on Craigslist
Fuck friendsSwinger/lifestyle friendsAnother term we made up
Full swapSwap partners for intercoursePretty much do everything.
GangbangA person provides sex to two or more other people.
(Usually more than two)
Usually a female is fucked by a group (gang) of guys
GILFGrandmother I (would) Like (to ) FuckWe made this one up
See MILF also
There is also a double GILF (Great Grandmother) but only a few of us have gone there
Glory Hole, GHHole cut into a door or wall where a guy can place his penis through for oral sex. An anonymous person on the other side provides oral sexAnal sex is also possible at a glory hole
Golden ShowersSex play involving urinating on one or more participantsSomeone is peed on. Same as W/S (water sports).
Not the same as squirting.
Head, giving headOral sex
HomophobicFear or dislike of same gender sexual activities. (Usually refers to male to male contact)Not homophobic means the guy is straight but incidental touching is not going to be a problem.
Horizontal friendSwinger/lifestyle friendsLying down in horizontal position for sex
HotSexy
Usually refers to a female but can be a male too or an activity.
This term fits many sexy places or objects, like, “She had on a hot pair of boots.”
HumblerBall torture device, to lock balls through a hole, to humble the victim.Usually made from wood with a hole big enough for the scrotum to fit but not big enough for the balls to get free. The wood is split in two, fitted around the balls, and held in place with two bolts.
HungLarge penis
Usually refers to length
As in, “like a horse”
HWPHeight Weight ProportionalMeans person is in reasonable shape
ISOIn Search OfFound in ads for sex
KeeperNice person
Someone you want to be friends with
Comes from fishing terms, when you catch a fish of legal size
LubePersonal lubricant
Used for sex or masturbation
Water base is best with condoms. Use plenty of lube with condoms. If lube gets sticky during sex from drying out, use a little water to get it slick again.
ManhoodPenis
MasochistA person that is turned on when receiving pain.Usually from a Sadist
Meet and GreetA small social gathering, usually held before a hotel swinger’s dance or other event.
Can also be used at swinger conventions or cruises.
Many times tied to registration and payment for the event.
Gives the participants an opportunity to meet other people.
MFMMale, Female, Male threesome
Two guys and a girl
Can also be, FMF, FFFM or just about any other combination of these letters of the alphabet
MILFMother I (would) Like (to) FuckSee GILF
Money ShotMale ejaculation, usually on the girl somewhereThis is a porn term. The man pulls out and jacks off onto the girl’s tummy, tits, or other place.
NewbiesNew to the lifestyleMay not have played at all or only a little. Many swingers avoid newbies. We loved to corrupt them.
NSANo Strings Attached, looking for sex not friendshipUsually looking for a one-night stand with no obligations.
Seen on Craigslist ads
NutsTesticlesBalls
On PremisesOn premises refers to swing clubs or parties where places are provided to have sex.

(Sex is had on the premises)
Swing clubs are usually “on premises” clubs with play areas provided. Hotel parties almost never offer on premises areas, and attendees are expected to get a room.
ParachuteA leather, cone shaped, BDSM device that is strapped around the male’s testicles. Chains hang from it where weights can be attached.One of a number of ball torture implements used by Dommes
PartyUsually means have sex with other people.In some places might mean to include drugs with sex, (see PNP below)
The word Party in the vertical world is much tamer.
Party FavorsIllegal drugs
PeckerPenis
Peg, peggingA male receiving anal sex, with a strap-on from a female
Piece of assSexual intercourseGetting a piece of ass is the same as Fucking a pussy
Pick of the PartyThe hottest female at a party or other eventCoined by Alison
PNPParty N Play, Have sex and use drugsSeen on Craigslist ads
Stay away from this
PlayHave sexUsually three or more people
Rim, rimmingOral sex to the anusLicking your sex partner’s asshole
Rodeo PositionMale is on his back, and the woman slides onto his penis while facing his feet.Also known as Reverse Cowgirl position
SadistOne who derives pleasure from inflicting pain on another person.
Sensation PlayS & M term referring to a variety of toys and tools to produce sensation to the bodyAnything from a feather to low voltage electric implements, pin wheels, and about anything else that can be used by a Dom to excite and stimulate the Sub
Sixty Nine (69)An oral sex position where each person has their mouth on the sexual parts of the other. Can be male, female, or any combination. Generally, one person is on their back while the second person, facing them, has their mouth on the sex organ, and their own sex organ in the mouth of the person beneath them.No it is not 23 times more than a threesome

It is a lot easier to do than to understand the explanation.
Squirt, squirtterFemale ejaculateSome women discharge a liquid from their pussy during orgasm.
StraightOnly has sex with people of the opposite gender.
Strap-onSex toy with a fake penis attached to a strap worn around the waist.Usually worn by a female to fuck other females or males
Soft swing,
Soft swap
Foreplay type playing without swapping for intercourseGenerally touching, maybe some oral.
SubA person that likes to be told what to do or is the recipient of “play” from a Dom
Opposite of Dom
SwitchThis is a BDSM term referring to a person being either a Sub or a Dom depending on the situationKat in our stories is a good example. She is very comfortable as a top or a bottom.
Takeover,
Full Takeover
Takeover of a full hotel, ship, or other venue for a swinger event
Textile friendsNon-nudistsSome lifestyle couples are not nudists, but they are not called textile friends.
TinaHarder drugs, cocaineSeen on Craigslist ads
Stay away from this crap
TopThe person that prefers being sucked or doing the fucking.Found on Craigslist, usually when referring to Bi guys
TTTit Torture
Pinching, clamps etc. involving either sex. Primarily deals with nipples.
Usually refers to a guy getting his nipples played with.
VanillaRegular sex without, toys or kink
VersatileOne who enjoys sex as either a top or bottom
Vertical friendNon swinger/lifestyle friends
Water sports, W/SUrinating as part of sex playSee Golden Showers
Wood, WoodyErectionHard-on, boner, etc.